Parents Responsibility Towards Your Kids

Nobody ever said that children were easy to raise. They don't come with guidelines or instructions, and they certainly don't come with a "pause" button. What they do come with is a crucial set of physical and emotional needs that must be met. Failure of the parents to meet these specific needs can have wide-ranging and long-lasting negative effects.

The following outline provides eight essential responsibilities that parents must adhere to in order to foster their child's physical and/or emotional well-being

1. Provide your child with BASIC NEEDS.
       A. Water
       B. Plenty of nutritious foods
       C. Shelter
       D. A warm bed with sheets, blankets, and a pillow
       E. Medical care as needed.
       F. Clothing that is appropriate for the weather conditions.
       G. Space,a place where he or she can go to be alone.

2. Provide your child with SELF-ESTEEM NEEDS.
       A. Accept your child's uniqueness and respect his or her individuality.
       B. Encourage but don't push your child to participate in a club, activity, or sport.
       C. Notice and acknowledge your child's achievements and pro-social behavior.
       D. Encourage proper hygiene (to look good is to feel good).
       E. Set expectations for your child that are realistic and age-appropriate.
       F. Use your child's misbehavior as a time to teach, not to criticize or ridicule.

3. Teach your child MORALS and VALUES.
       A. Honesty
       B. Respect
       C. Responsibility
       D. Compassion
       E. Patience
       F. Forgiveness
       G. Generosity

4. Develop MUTUAL RESPECT with your child.
       A. Use respectful language
       B. Respect his or her feelings.
       C. Respect his or her opinions.
       D. Respect his or her privacy.
       E. Respect his or her individuality.

5. Provide DISCIPLINE which is effective and appropriate.
       A. Structured
       B. Consistent
       C. Predictable
       D. Fair

6. Involve yourself in your child's EDUCATION.
       A. Communicate regularly with your child's teacher.
       B. Make sure that your child is completing his or her homework each night.
       C. Assist your child with his or her homework, but don't DO their homework.
       D. Talk to your child each day about school (what is being studied, any interesting
           events etc.).
       E. Recognize and acknowledge your child's academic achievements.

7. Provide an environment that is SAFE.
       A. Keep your child free from physical, sexual, and emotional abuse.
       B. Keep unsafe objects locked up or out of reach of your child.
       C. Get to know your child's caregivers.
       D. Correct any potential dangers around the house.
       E. Take Safety Precautions. Use smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, lock
           doors at night, always wear seatbelts etc.

8. Get to KNOW YOUR CHILD.
       A. Spend quality time together.

       B. Be approachable to your child.
       C. Ask questions

       D. Communicate with them.

We've looked at the responsibilities parents HAVE, now let's look at what responsibilities parents Do Not have.

The following are lists of responsibilities that no parent should be expected to meet.

·         Supplying your child with the most expensive designer clothes or shoes available.

·         Picking up after your child/Cleaning your child's room.

·         Dropping everything you're doing to give your child a ride somewhere.

·         Providing your child with a telephone, television, computer, or game system.

·         Bailing your child out of trouble every time he or she does something wrong.

·         Maintaining an unlimited supply of treats, chips, sodas, or junk foods for your child's unlimited

·         consumption.

·         Replacing toys or other items that your child has lost or misplaced.

·         Welcoming any or all of your child's friends into your home for social or other activities.

Hindi Rhymes for kids: Titli-II

      Titli Udi Re, Uda Na Saki,

     Bus me Chadi, Sit Na Mili,

        Sit na Mili, Rone Lagi,

          Conductor Ne kaha, 
             Chal Mere Sath,

     Titli Boli Chal Hat Badmash.

Hindi Rhymes for kids : TITLI

Subah Savere Aati Titli,

Phool-Phool par Jati Titli,

Rang-Birange Pankh Sajaye,

Sabke Man Ko Bhati Titli.

Baby Boys Name Start With 'K'

Kabir                .           .         Kadir                .                    Kailash

Kailashchandra           .         Kailashnath     .                      Kalap

Kalapriya                     .         Kalash             .                Kalicharan

Kalidas                        .          Kalimohan       .              Kalinga

Kalipada                      .          Kaliranjan        .              Kaliya

Kalki                            .           Kalpa               .               Kalya

Kalyan             .           .           Kamal              .                Kamalapati

Kamalesh                    .          Kamalnayan    .                Kaman

Kamaraja                    .           Kamat             .                  Kamesh

Kameshwar                 .          Kamik              .                 Kamil

Kamlakar                    .           Kamod                        .           Kamraj

Kamran                       .           Kamukh                      .           Kanad

Kanak              .           .           Kanal               .           .           Kanan

Kanan              .           .           Kanchan                      .           Kandan

Kandarpa                    .           Kandavel                     .          Kanhaiya

Kanhaiyalal                 .           Kanishka                     .           Kanishta

Kantilal                        .           Kantimoy                     .           Kanu

Kanvar                        .           .Kanwal                        .     Kanwaljeet

Kanwaljit                      .           Kanwalkishore                       Kapil   

Kapish             .           .           Karan                          .           Kareem

Karika              .           .           Karna              .           .           Karnik

Kartar                          .           Kartik               .           .        Kartikeya

Karun                          .           Karunakar                   .      Karunamay

Karunashankar           .          Kashif              .           .         Kashinath

Kashiprasad                .          Kashyap                      .          Katran

Kaunteya                     .           Kausar             .           .        Kaushal

Kaushik                       .           Kaustav                       .        Kaustubh

Kavi                             .           Kaviraj             .           .           Kedar

Kedarnath                   .           Keshav                        .           .Ketan

Kevalkishore               .           Kevalkumar                .           Keyur

Khadim                        .           Khajit               .           .           Khalid

Khazana                      .           Khemchand    .           .    Khemprakash

Khushal           .           .           Kinshu             .           .       Kinshuk

Kiran                .           .           Kiranmay                    .           Kirik

Kirit                  .           .           Kirtikumar                   .           Kishore

Kovida             .           .           Kriday                          .           Kripal

Krishan                        .           Krishanu                      .           Krishna

Krishnachandra           .           Krishnadeva                .      Krishnakanta

Krishnakumar             .           Krishnala                         Krishnamurari

Krishnamurthy            .           Krishnaroop     .           .        Krishnendu

Kshaunish                   .           Kuber              .           .     Kuberchand

Kularanjan                   .           Kulbhushan     .           .         Kuldeep

Kumar             .           .           Kunal               .           .           Kundan

Kundanlal        .           .           Kunja   .           .           .      Kunjabihari

Kunran            .           .           .Kush                .           .      Kushal

Kushik                         .           Kusumakar                 .       Kusumesh

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English Story for kids: Count Of All The Crows in The Kingdom

By nature, Emperor Akbar was a kind-hearted man. But there were certain blemishes in him that were wholly human, and they would rather enhance his personality than diminish his stature. One such was his whimsicality. Birbal was always there by his side to set the wrong in him right.

On one evening, when Akbar and Birbal were on their daily walks in the palace gardens, they noticed the lurching of a host of crows on the garden trees. Suddenly Akbar got a thought and asked Birbal,

"How many crows are there in my kingdom?"

This thought burrowed into his mind so deeply that he needed an answer from Birbal. As we all know, administrators evince greater interest in the compilation of data for their future plans and execution.

Birbal had wit enough to realize what to do in such an emergency.

He readily answered:

"There are ninety five thousand four hundred and sixty-three crows in the kingdom".

Amazed at his quick response, Akbar tried his best to outwit him.

"What if there be more crows than you answered?"

Without hesitation, Birbal replied, “Then some crows must have visited from neighbouring kingdoms"

"And what if there be less crows?" asked Akbar.

And then came Birbal's instant answer as usual.

"Then some crows from our kingdom must have gone on vacation to other parts"

Emperor Akbar, thereby, realized that Birbal's wit was a hard nut to crack. Nevertheless, he realized his administrative folly on statistical data.



RHYMES

• Hindi Rhymes   :           Gudia Rani.
• Hindi Rhymes   :           Chanda mama - I.
• Hindi Rhymes   :           Chidiya Rani.
• Hindi Rhymes   :           Chanda mama - II.
• English Rhymes :           Pussy Cat.

English Rhymes for kids: Pussy Cat

                               Ding dong bell,
                             Pussy in the well;
                              Who put her in?
                            Little Tommy Thin.
                           Who pulled her out?
                            Little Tommy Stout.
                    What a naughty boy was that
                        To drown poor pussy cat.

English Story for kids: Thirsty Crow

A thirsty crow once found a pitcher with a little water in it. But when he tired to drink the water, he could not. The pitcher was tall and his beak didn't reach the water.
The cleaver crow thought and hit upon a plan. He went on dropping pebbles into the pitcher. The water rose up to its neck and he quenched his thirst.

Moral : Where there is will, there is a way !

Hair Care Tips For Children

As your kid get older, they will begin to have preferences about the hairstyles like.   Whether your child's hair is long, straight and thin, or short, thick and curly or some other combination, it requires care and upkeep to stay healthy. A suitable hair care regime will vary depending on hair type and lifestyle. Basic hair care for kids includes regular shampooing, daily grooming and frequent cuts. Learning proper hair care techniques in childhood can lay the groundwork for maintaining healthy hair throughout lifeThis is a natural identity issue that stays with us into adulthood. By teaching your children good hair care techniques when they are young, you will be guiding them to a lifetime of healthy hair.

Washing : At First you should wash hair using a mild shampoo that doesn't sting your kids eyes. When they are old enough, teach them how to shampoo and rinse their own hair. Use conditioner when your child is older and has longer hair. Avoid putting conditioner on the scalp.

Shea Butter for Hair Conditioning : Shea butter is a good choice for child hair care because it is mild and works as sunscreen as well. Products with shea butter are good for curly hair and hair that is dry and needs extra conditioning to be manageable. Apply shea butter to the hair after a bath and brush through the hair thoroughly for an even coating.

Tangles : Detangling is best done before you wash your child's hair. Use a wide tooth comb and start at the bottom of the hair, working your way up. Tangles can cause terrible battles between you and your child. To reduce the pain of combing tangled hair, hold taut the section of hair you are trying to comb. For problematic tangles, you can spray in a good detangler. The best time to get rid of tangles is when the hair is still wet after it has been washed. For curly hair or hair that tends to tangle easily, use a gentle mist of leave in conditioner before combing.

Combing/Brushing : Encourage your child to comb/ brush their own hair. Use a comb, not a brush on wet hair. It promotes shine and minimizes hair breakage. Curly hair is hard to manage on an adult, and even harder to manage on a child who plays rough all day long. A conditioning routine is especially important for kids with long hair to keep the hair from breaking. If you don`t want to both with the hassle of two rinses in the tub, purchase a light shampoo and conditioner combo, and make sure to wash their hair at least 2-3 times a week to make sure tangles don`t turn into knots that need to be ripped out.

Hair Accessories : Use good quality brushes, combs and accessories for your kid’s hair. Kids love having fun clips and hair ties. Avoid hairclips with sharp teeth, as these can hurt the scalp and cause hair damage. Keeping hair neatly tied back is a good way of avoiding hair tangling.

Haircuts : When should children get haircuts?

Children should usually get haircuts around 1 year old if the hair is growing out very long. Some children do not require a haircut until they are much older because hair growth will vary. For younger boys, once the initial haircut has been made, another haircut will not be needed until bangs become too long. Young boys' hairstyles are usually good until the bangs go past the eyes and start hampering activities. Haircuts for little girls should be given more often to keep hair from getting too long and tangling up. Girls hair length should be right at should length to provide different cute looks like little curls or waves for special occasions. Shorter hair is also good for young girls. Haircuts slightly past the chin are cute hairstyles that allow young girls to be playful. Girls' haircuts should be cut once a month or every other month depending on growth.

Children's salons : The places most adults go to are usually not convenient or even proper places where children should get their haircuts. Salons, beauty shops, and other hair facilities can be both too active as well as expensive for a quick haircut. The first step for getting your child's haircut is looking for a specialist who caters only to children. So find out if you have a specialized children's salon in your area. They are designed to make the hair cutting experience a fun one with toys, video games, fun shaped chairs.

Home cuts : If your child is afraid of the hairdresser, you could try cutting their hair at home. They will feel much more comfortable in their own home environment. Cutting hair for a child is basically the same for an adult, except that a child's hair is usually thin and baby soft. If the child's hair is thin, avoid short cuts for now until their hair comes in thicker. Shape around the face if you're trying to grow it long. If you don't have any haircutting experience or if you don't feel confident enough to cut their hair, you can get someone to help you.

Haircut tips for kids :

·         Keep them very simple as kids will usually play and mess up fancy hairstyles.

·         Brush young girl's hair daily to keep out knots and tangles

·         For active girls, go with ponytails.

Tips on Children's Hairstyles :

·         For young girls, keep it simple or tied up because hair can easily get tangled up when they are out playing.

·         Brush and wash children's hair because they often get knotted and dirty because of all the activities kids do everyday

·         Teach your kids good hair care habits

·         Keep hats, caps, and other accessories at a minimum as it tends to mess of hairstyles.

Discipline Your Baby

Discipline isn't really about punishment. Instead, it has to do more with teaching your child how to behave as he grows up. This includes trying to support good behaviors and discourage undesired behaviors. And it includes the overall environment  in which you raise your child. So discipline is just about keeping your child on a regular routine for eating, naps, bedtime, and baths, and responding to your baby's needs.

A crawling baby may be old enough to make mischief, but she's not old enough to learn the difference between right and wrong. So, your job right now is to keep your baby safe, secure, and stimulated. Even though your baby can't grasp discipline, this is a great time to start practicing techniques that will work in the months and years to come. No matter what your baby does, spanking, swatting, and yelling are never appropriate responses. Harsh discipline will only scare her and can even cause an injury. You can head off many problems by giving your baby a safe place to explore. Babyproofing your home, covering up outlets, putting dangerous things out of reach and so on are the best way to ensure good behavior. Instead of looking for discipline opportunities at this point, try to enjoy and appreciate your baby's fascination with his world.

Baby Boys Name Start With 'J'

Jacob               .           .           Jag                   .           Jagadbandu

Jagadeep         .           .           Jagadish          .           Jaganmay

Jagannath        .           .           Jagat                .           Jagatbihari

Jagatkishor      .           .           Jagatpal           .           Jagatprabhu

Jagatprakash   .           .           Jagatveer        .           Jagjeet

Jagjeevan        .           .           Jagjeevan        .           Jagmohan

Jagnarayan      .           .           Jahan               .           Jaichand

Jaidayal                       .           Jaidev              .           Jaigopal

Jaikrishna        .           .           Jaimini             .           Jainand

Jainarayan       .           .           Jainil                .           Jainul

Jaipal               .           .           Jairaj               .           Jairam

Jaisal               .           .           Jaisukh             .           Jaiwant

Jalal                 .           .           Jalbhushan      .           Jaldev

Jaldhar                        .           Jalendu                        Jalil

Jameel             .           .           Jamil                .           Janak

Janakibhushan             .           Janakinath       .        Janakiraman

Janamejay       .           .           Janardan         .           Janesh

Japendra         .           .           Japendu           .           Japesh

Jasbeer                        .           Jash                 .           Jashan

Jason               .           .           Jaspal              .           Jasraj

Jasveer            .                       Jaswant                       Jatak

Jatan                .           .           Jatin                 .           Javed

Jawahar           .           .           Jay                   .           Jayachand

Jayaditya         .           .           Jayant              .           Jayapal

Jayaprakash    .           .           Jayashekhar    .           Jayawant

Jaydeep           .           .           Jaysukh                      Jeemutbahan

Jeevan             .           .           Jeevanprakash            Jeevesh

Jehangir          .           .           Jeremy                        Jerry

Jhoomer          .           .           Jignesh                       Jihan

Jimmy              .           .           Jinendra          .           Jishnu

Jiten                 .           .           Jitendra                       Jitesh

Jivitesh            .           .           Jivraj                .           Jnyandeep

Jnyaneshwar   .           .           Joel                  .           Joginder

Jogindra                      .           Jograj              .           Joideep

Jonathan                      .           Joseph             .           Jugnu

Junaid              .           .           Jusal                .           Jwalaprasad

Jyotichandra    .           .           Jyotiprakash    .           Jyotiranjan

Jyotirdhar        .           .           Jyotirmoy        .           Jyotish

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Hindi Rhymes for kids : Chanda Mama II

Chanda mama gol matol,

Kuch to bol, kuch to bol.

Kal the aadhey, aaj ho gol,

khol bhi do ab apni pol

Raat hote hi tum aa jate,

Sang-sath sitare late.

Lekin din mai kahan chip jate,

Kuch to bol, kuch to bol.

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Hindi Rhymes for kids: Chidiya Rani

 Chee Chee Choo Choo Karti Chidiya,

Phur Phur udati Jati Chidiya,

Fudak Fudak kar Gana Gati,

Roz Savere Mujhe Jagati Chidiya.

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